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On Monday, we told you about Emma Sullivan, a teenager who tweeted her displeasure at governor Sam Brownback and then stuck to her guns after his staff whined about it. But last night, a teen from Waverly, Iowa one-upped Sullivan, confronting Michele Bachmann to her face—in a room full of Bachmann supporters.

During a town hall, 16-year-old Jane Schmidt, the head of her school’s Gay-Straight Alliance, asked the famously anti-gay congresswoman how she would support the LGBT community. After Bachmann said that “all Americans have the same civil rights,” Schmidt pressed her, even as virtually all the adults in the room broke out in applause in response to Bachmann’s reply.

“Then why can’t gay people get married?” Schmidt asked. They can, Bachmann assured her, as long as they marry a person of the opposite sex. A lengthy exchange ensued, wherein Schmidt kept her cool while calling out Bachmann’s bullshit answers.

It’s one thing to tweet an insult or bang out an angry blog post, but it takes real courage to ask tough questions of a politician standing right in front of you as your entire community stares you down. It’s moments like these when YouTube and the First Amendment make especially cozy bedfellows. Maybe the next generation isn’t so doomed, after all.


Two years after the New York State Senate strongly rejected gay marriage it finally came to a vote again tonight. This time, the State Senate voted to legalize same-sex marriage by a margin of 33 to 29. The religious amendments to the bill passed in the Assembly by 82-47 earlier in the evening; now the bill just needs Governor Cuomo’s signature to become law.

As the vote began there was some confusion when State Senator Tom Duane started to defend the bill he sponsored—saying “What this bill will do is say that we are family in a way that no other word can. And that word is marriage.”—before he was replaced by Senator Stephen Saland who instead defended the bill’s amendment, which he worked on. As he spoke about the bill and its inseverability clause it became increasingly clear that he would be the much rumored 32nd vote in favor of marriage equality in New York State.

“I, like many people, have struggled over this issue. It has been a difficult issue to deal with,” he said. He then spoke of the thousands and thousands of his constituents who had contacted him and said, “They all asked me to do the right thing. Needless to say my decision on this bill is going to disappoint a significant number of people. I have to define doing the right thing as treating all persons with equality. And that equality includes the definition of marriage.”

The religious exceptions amendment passed 36-26.

Only four Senators actually spoke before the vote, getting to a lively start when a grandstanding Senator Ruben Diaz, Sr., got into a tiff over time limits with Lt. Governor Robert Duffy. Once he was done, Tom Duane got up to speak again in favor of the bill and showed that going too long was not unique to either side of the debate, leading Duffy to cut him off one last time, “I ask you conclude, and I recognize your vote is affirmative.”

Republican Senator Mark Grisanti then spoke about his struggle before coming to his decision to vote for the bill. “A man can be wiser today than he was yesterday,” he said.

After Grisanti there was a brief, nerve-wracking recess so Duffy could confer with Senate majority leader Dean Skelos and then Carl Kruger spoke to the Senate, reiterating how difficult this vote is and repeating Duane’s line that in this vote “there are no villains, there are only heroes.”

And then marriage equality was approved by a Senate vote of 33-29. See who voted for it and who voted against it below.

As the vote went down tens of thousands watched it live online and on TV, or in crowds around the state, most notably in the West Village by the Stonewall Inn where the gay rights movement began in the early hours of June 28, 1969.

Marriage equality wasn’t the only vote in the State Senate tonight. The-so called “Big Ugly” omnibus bill made it through 57-5 and Mayor Bloomberg’s plan to let livery cabs pick up street hails passed as well.




New York could become the sixth state in the union to legalize gay marriage this week, now that Republican Sen. Roy J. McDonald has pledged his support for the measure.

From The New York Times:

The vote tally in the State Senate now stands at 31 of 62 members, with one more vote needed to approve the law. The Assembly has passed the measure several times before and is likely to do so again this week if the Senate moves ahead.

“I think I’m doing the right thing, it’s the appropriate thing, and if the public respects that, I’m grateful,” Mr. McDonald said as reporters pressed him in the Capitol for his decision. “If they don’t, then I move on.”

McDonald’s announcement comes one day after three Democrats flipped in favor of gay marriage.

A similar measure was defeated in 2009 in the then Democrat-led Senate. Since then support for marriage equality has grown in New York state. A recent poll showed that 58% of New Yorkers favor legalizing same-sex marriage.

Not everyone is pleased with this potentially historic turn of events. Archbishop Timothy Dolanvoiced his concern that such a measure would pass.

“Please, not here!” he said. “We cherish true freedom, not as the license to do whatever we want, but the liberty to do what we ought.”

But governor Cuomo is intent on seeing it through. The governor introduced his bill on Tuesday. The terms of the bill are concise and clear, according to the Times, and “would allow same-sex couples from anywhere in the nation to marry in New York beginning 30 days from passage.”




Nigerian NFL player Brendon Ayanbadejo is currently a star linebacker for the Baltimore Ravens. He’s also rabidly dedicated to equality for all. As Maryland legislators prepare to debate the adoption of same-sex marriage in their state, Ayanbadejo has partnered with Equality Maryland to release a statement in support of gay marriage rights.

“[A]n important issue in our state is whether or not to allow gay and lesbian couples who love each other to marry,” Ayanbadejo says in the video below. “Gay and lesbian couples want to marry for similar reasons as we all do: love and commitment. It’s time to allow them the opportunity to build a family through marriage. It’s a matter of fairness.”

Ayanbadejo’s willingness to stand up for what he believes in is commendable any way you look at it. But it’s especially remarkable considering how homophobic the NFL can be.

According to Mike Freeman, a sports columnist for CBS, one gay NFL athlete with whom he spoke for a book he was writing told Freeman he was “dead” if his teammates found out he was a homosexual. The player, who went by the pseudonym Steven Thompson, told Freeman that “gay men were routinely viewed as animals and people to be feared, if not outright eliminated.”

In other words, good for Ayanbadejo, but we’ve still got a long way to go.